Today I had to go to Duke for my normal follow up blood work and to see Dr. Ellis. Since I had already written his note, but didn't have his exact mailing address, I just gave him the card on my way out. I had never met Dr. Ellis before I had my transplant. I had seen his name on my insurance papers for short term disability but I had never seen him on any Duke appointment. I started seeing him about 2 months after my transplant. Right after the transplant you see a variety of doctors every week. I feel so blessed that Dr. Ellis became my doctor. I don't normally like doctors but I really clicked with him. First of all, he is always on time (which in itself is not the norm at Duke). He is always so positive and friendly and he really takes the time to listen to all of my concerns and issues and he goes over in detail the results of my previous blood work. I have never gotten the sense that he is trying to rush me out of the room to go on to the next patient. Any time I have had the need to send him an email, he answers it promptly. I really appreciate him and the care he gives me!
Dave worked for our company for over 35 years. He was based in Atlanta and worked as a salesman and then he became a representative for the leasing part of our company. He had the southeast region which meant he traveled a lot. I really loved traveling with Dave. He would call me up and tell me he was coming to our area and he would have customer appointments set up and/or I would set some up as well. He had a natural knack for promoting our leasing plan because he used to sell the communcation material that he was trying to lease. He developed so many great relationships with our customers and they all knew he really cared about them and not just their business. He retired about 3 years ago and spends his time with the youth group at his church and works at a local cafe/grill and is loving it. I really miss him and you can tell he is hard to replace as we have never yet met the person who took his place!!
As I go through my day, I find that I am more open to seeing things to be grateful for. Today, I was thankful for safe travels to and from Duke and I found a parking space in the parking deck right near the elevator. I had a nice vacation day and found a new hairdresser. I hope you are open to the positive things in your everyday travels. They are abundant and we merely need to focus on them instead of the negative.
Make it a great day!
Warm wishes,
Annie
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Sunday, April 1, 2012
Andrea, Jo Jo and Sandy
I hope you had a wonderful weekend. I shared a fun filled day with my friend Terri; we went to a wellness expo and just had fun hanging out together.
I sent a note of encouragement to my husband's cousin's daughter Andrea. She is in her 30s and lives in Canada. She has had rhumatoid arthritis since she was a little girl. Now she has a little girl who is about 7 or 8. Andrea's arthritis is in full bloom. It is in at least 20 of her joints and she has to have help even to take a shower. Luckily, living in Canada, she does not have to worry about the expense of health care. Her parents are also caring for her and her daughter. I just wanted to let her know I had her in my thoughts and prayers. Even with my health issues, I cannot imagine what it is like to be in constant, heavy duty pain every single day. I pray for her to have relief and healing.
Joanne (Jo Jo) is an account manager in our Roanoke office. I don't see her that often but she is a huge go-getter. Her job is to develop business for the branch and for the salesman and she is great at it. She is very faithful and is not afraid to share her beliefs. She walks the talk and if I were a non-believer I would want to know more about what she believes in just based on how she behaves and treats other people. She is active and loves to be outdoors riding her bike. She and her husband Mike are big dog lovers as well. She is just an upbeat, positive person to be around.
Sandy is the wife of one of my branch managers and is so very sweet. I sent her a sympathy card on the death of her 96 year old grandmother. Even though you know your loved one is in their 90's and may not have much time left, it is still so devastating when you lose them.
I hope you find the joy and love you need this week and that you will be a light for others.
Much love,
Annie
I sent a note of encouragement to my husband's cousin's daughter Andrea. She is in her 30s and lives in Canada. She has had rhumatoid arthritis since she was a little girl. Now she has a little girl who is about 7 or 8. Andrea's arthritis is in full bloom. It is in at least 20 of her joints and she has to have help even to take a shower. Luckily, living in Canada, she does not have to worry about the expense of health care. Her parents are also caring for her and her daughter. I just wanted to let her know I had her in my thoughts and prayers. Even with my health issues, I cannot imagine what it is like to be in constant, heavy duty pain every single day. I pray for her to have relief and healing.
Joanne (Jo Jo) is an account manager in our Roanoke office. I don't see her that often but she is a huge go-getter. Her job is to develop business for the branch and for the salesman and she is great at it. She is very faithful and is not afraid to share her beliefs. She walks the talk and if I were a non-believer I would want to know more about what she believes in just based on how she behaves and treats other people. She is active and loves to be outdoors riding her bike. She and her husband Mike are big dog lovers as well. She is just an upbeat, positive person to be around.
Sandy is the wife of one of my branch managers and is so very sweet. I sent her a sympathy card on the death of her 96 year old grandmother. Even though you know your loved one is in their 90's and may not have much time left, it is still so devastating when you lose them.
I hope you find the joy and love you need this week and that you will be a light for others.
Much love,
Annie
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Sherry, Cynthia and Debbie
I hope you have had a great week. Mine was unusually busy but invigorating (at work).
I have not seen Sherry since she retired almost ten years ago. She worked in our district office in VA and became one of my bosses right before she retired. Before she was my boss, she was our district's accountant. When she was the accountant she was always so helpful to me when I needed her. She was a dedicated employee and I could always count on her. She cared about us as individuals as well as employees. When she became my boss, I recall her saying she had no idea of all the stuff we went through trying to do our job. (I guess we were so good at it, we made it look easy). I liked that she spoke her mind and did not pussy foot around. That didn't always sit well with everyone but I respected her for it and I do miss her. I think she is enjoying traveling around the country with her husband in their RV. What a life!
Cynthia was a life saver to me when I was on dialysis. She is an aromatherapist and I met her years ago at a wellness expo. She first helped me when my chronic cough got worse and worse. She gave me a mixture that gave me some relief. When I went on dialysis and thought I would have to go to the funny farm because I couldn't get relief from INTENSE and CONSTANT itching she came to my rescue. When I tried about 6 different kinds of sleeping pills because I couldn't sleep, she gave me "Blessed Sleep" and that worked better than any sleeping pill I had. I could just call her up and go by her house and pick up my remedy. I still use "Blessed Sleep" when I need it. Her business is called "Loving Scents". I would encourage each of you to give aromatherapy a chance if you have any issues. It really works.
Debbie works for a customer of ours and I have known her about 8 years. When I came back to work in March 2010 after having to go on dialysis and when she found out why I was out, she IMMEDIATELY said "Oh, you need a kidney? You can have mine". I was so moved and touched that she would not even hesitate to offer this gift of life. I told her it was so generous of her to offer and tried to change the subject. ( I was so shocked that I really didn't think she was serious). But she continued, wanting to know where she would need to go and who she needed to contact to do the testing etc. It turned out that her son had some heart issues and her husband also faced some medical issues. I just didn't think that it was the right thing to do to put her through that additional stress. However, I will always remember her amazing, selfless offer and that means so much to me.
Hoping you are a light for someone who may be in the dark!
Warm wishes,
Annie
I have not seen Sherry since she retired almost ten years ago. She worked in our district office in VA and became one of my bosses right before she retired. Before she was my boss, she was our district's accountant. When she was the accountant she was always so helpful to me when I needed her. She was a dedicated employee and I could always count on her. She cared about us as individuals as well as employees. When she became my boss, I recall her saying she had no idea of all the stuff we went through trying to do our job. (I guess we were so good at it, we made it look easy). I liked that she spoke her mind and did not pussy foot around. That didn't always sit well with everyone but I respected her for it and I do miss her. I think she is enjoying traveling around the country with her husband in their RV. What a life!
Cynthia was a life saver to me when I was on dialysis. She is an aromatherapist and I met her years ago at a wellness expo. She first helped me when my chronic cough got worse and worse. She gave me a mixture that gave me some relief. When I went on dialysis and thought I would have to go to the funny farm because I couldn't get relief from INTENSE and CONSTANT itching she came to my rescue. When I tried about 6 different kinds of sleeping pills because I couldn't sleep, she gave me "Blessed Sleep" and that worked better than any sleeping pill I had. I could just call her up and go by her house and pick up my remedy. I still use "Blessed Sleep" when I need it. Her business is called "Loving Scents". I would encourage each of you to give aromatherapy a chance if you have any issues. It really works.
Debbie works for a customer of ours and I have known her about 8 years. When I came back to work in March 2010 after having to go on dialysis and when she found out why I was out, she IMMEDIATELY said "Oh, you need a kidney? You can have mine". I was so moved and touched that she would not even hesitate to offer this gift of life. I told her it was so generous of her to offer and tried to change the subject. ( I was so shocked that I really didn't think she was serious). But she continued, wanting to know where she would need to go and who she needed to contact to do the testing etc. It turned out that her son had some heart issues and her husband also faced some medical issues. I just didn't think that it was the right thing to do to put her through that additional stress. However, I will always remember her amazing, selfless offer and that means so much to me.
Hoping you are a light for someone who may be in the dark!
Warm wishes,
Annie
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Dearest Hubby and Carol
Happy Sunday!
There were not enough words to let my dearest hubby David know how much he means to me. It's hard to believe we have known each other more years than we haven't. We met at work 29 1/2 years ago and have been married for 25 1/2 years. He is so smart and has the most wonderful sense of humor (DO NOT play ANY type of trivia game with him as you will get your butt whipped). He really loves to unwind with his favorite sit-coms and he will just roar with laughter. We are opposites in so many things but it just seems to work for us. He is my knight in shining armor. He was so encouraging and supportive when I was on dialysis; I couldn't have done it without him. He is a fantastic father and a great role model to our son. He makes sure his mom is taken care of and does errands whenever she needs him. I feel tremendously blessed to have such a wonderful friend and husband.
I sent my dental hygenist Carol a card. She has cleaned our whole families teeth for over 10 years. When she cleans our teeth, she is so upbeat and positive. She always has a smile and definitely likes to talk (this makes the time go so much faster!) She always asks me how David and Nick are doing, how my job is going, how my health is, etc. I know she genuinely cares about each of her patients and I really appreciate her.
Here's hoping you make it a great week!
Warm wishes,
Annie
There were not enough words to let my dearest hubby David know how much he means to me. It's hard to believe we have known each other more years than we haven't. We met at work 29 1/2 years ago and have been married for 25 1/2 years. He is so smart and has the most wonderful sense of humor (DO NOT play ANY type of trivia game with him as you will get your butt whipped). He really loves to unwind with his favorite sit-coms and he will just roar with laughter. We are opposites in so many things but it just seems to work for us. He is my knight in shining armor. He was so encouraging and supportive when I was on dialysis; I couldn't have done it without him. He is a fantastic father and a great role model to our son. He makes sure his mom is taken care of and does errands whenever she needs him. I feel tremendously blessed to have such a wonderful friend and husband.
I sent my dental hygenist Carol a card. She has cleaned our whole families teeth for over 10 years. When she cleans our teeth, she is so upbeat and positive. She always has a smile and definitely likes to talk (this makes the time go so much faster!) She always asks me how David and Nick are doing, how my job is going, how my health is, etc. I know she genuinely cares about each of her patients and I really appreciate her.
Here's hoping you make it a great week!
Warm wishes,
Annie
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Pete and Sylvia
Hope you had a loving, wonderful week. I got such a heart warming email from Sharon. She said that her husband Mike got my card and was really touched to hear from me. He is suffering from depression and showed her my card. She said he put it next to the couch and would re-read it. He has not heard from anyone at work since he has been out. She got her note in the mail the next day and said it meant a lot to her to get words of encouragement as she deals with the myriad of issues that his illness brings.
Pete is another guy I know from working with him in Raleigh. He married my former assistant and friend Veronica. He has been out on medical leave and is also suffering from serious depression. I sent him a card telling him I was praying that God would comfort him and give him strength. I told him that I believed in him and that what God brought him to, he would see him through. Anyway, Veronica called me early the morning after he got it and said when she saw his card, she broke down and cried. She said it meant a lot to him to hear from me and to her as well.
I have known Sylvia for 29 years. We both work for the same company and she started about a year and a half after I did. I knew when I met her that she was a good friend and a great asset to the company. She worked her way through many different jobs, including a Manager of Customer Service. She lost that job when the department she was managing moved to St. Louis. She is a project specialist now and is such a hard worker and really knows her stuff. I remember when our son Nick was born, she was the only one from work that came to visit us in the hospital. She has a good head on her shoulders and is always willing to help me at work if I need anything. I just wanted her to know I appreciate her.
I hope you have a memorable weekend and don't forget to look for all the goodness that surrounds you.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Pete is another guy I know from working with him in Raleigh. He married my former assistant and friend Veronica. He has been out on medical leave and is also suffering from serious depression. I sent him a card telling him I was praying that God would comfort him and give him strength. I told him that I believed in him and that what God brought him to, he would see him through. Anyway, Veronica called me early the morning after he got it and said when she saw his card, she broke down and cried. She said it meant a lot to him to hear from me and to her as well.
I have known Sylvia for 29 years. We both work for the same company and she started about a year and a half after I did. I knew when I met her that she was a good friend and a great asset to the company. She worked her way through many different jobs, including a Manager of Customer Service. She lost that job when the department she was managing moved to St. Louis. She is a project specialist now and is such a hard worker and really knows her stuff. I remember when our son Nick was born, she was the only one from work that came to visit us in the hospital. She has a good head on her shoulders and is always willing to help me at work if I need anything. I just wanted her to know I appreciate her.
I hope you have a memorable weekend and don't forget to look for all the goodness that surrounds you.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Alex & Alice, Sharon & Mike
I hope you are enjoying this wonderful spring weather we are having; some rain, some sunshine and the start of that yellow haze.
Today is David's brother Alex's birthday. Alice is his wife. I sent him a card telling him how much I admired him and enjoyed being around him. They live about 2 hours from us but whenever he and David are together they laugh and laugh and I love to hear them. They both have such a great sense of humor. They are so quick witted; you really have to be on your toes to keep up with them. Alex and Alice have two wonderful, respectful, loving sons. They are examples to their kids by the way they live. They have a strong work ethic but they also make time for themselves as a couple. You can't have a better example than that.
I know Sharon and Mike from work. They also met at work and got married. Unfortunately Mike is out on permanently disability (side effects from diabetes). He has been out of work over a year and I know he is suffering from depression in addition to his many medical problems. I sent him a card of encouragement and just wanted him to know that I missed him and that I was praying for him. I also sent Sharon a card just to let her know she is also in my prayers and that I know she is under a lot of pressure working full time and taking care of and worrying about Mike.
I encourage you to take just a few minutes this week and send someone you know a note of encouragement. Just one. You may not think it will make that much difference, but I have gotten so many calls and notes/messages from people who thanked me so very much for the card and kind words they received from me. Many of them said they really had a rough day and my card was waiting for them in the mail and really turned their day around.
Here's wishing you a day of joy!
Annie
Today is David's brother Alex's birthday. Alice is his wife. I sent him a card telling him how much I admired him and enjoyed being around him. They live about 2 hours from us but whenever he and David are together they laugh and laugh and I love to hear them. They both have such a great sense of humor. They are so quick witted; you really have to be on your toes to keep up with them. Alex and Alice have two wonderful, respectful, loving sons. They are examples to their kids by the way they live. They have a strong work ethic but they also make time for themselves as a couple. You can't have a better example than that.
I know Sharon and Mike from work. They also met at work and got married. Unfortunately Mike is out on permanently disability (side effects from diabetes). He has been out of work over a year and I know he is suffering from depression in addition to his many medical problems. I sent him a card of encouragement and just wanted him to know that I missed him and that I was praying for him. I also sent Sharon a card just to let her know she is also in my prayers and that I know she is under a lot of pressure working full time and taking care of and worrying about Mike.
I encourage you to take just a few minutes this week and send someone you know a note of encouragement. Just one. You may not think it will make that much difference, but I have gotten so many calls and notes/messages from people who thanked me so very much for the card and kind words they received from me. Many of them said they really had a rough day and my card was waiting for them in the mail and really turned their day around.
Here's wishing you a day of joy!
Annie
Friday, March 16, 2012
John, Wayne and Liz
I have missed blogging this week, but I have been keeping with my notes and am up to date. Hope your week was a great one.
John, (aka Johnny) is my husband's best friend. They have known each other since the first grade. He lives here in town with his lovely wife and two wonderful daughters. John is a very devoted husband and dad. He is a great friend. He has been very helpful in offering job leads to our son. It's very rare to have a friend for over 40 years and that is a real treasure.
Wayne is a co-worker that works in our warehouse. He just celebrated his 20th anniversary and I wanted him to know how much I appreciated all his hard work and dedication in making the company successful.
I simply had to send another card to my friend Liz. She already knows how much she means to me, but I sent her a congratulations card as she recently passed the 2nd part of the CPA exam. She is finishing up her Master's degree and has passed the first and second tests. I am SOOOOO very proud of her as she has worked and worked extremely hard to accomplish this goal. She is an inspiration to others that it is never too late to accomplish something if you work hard and believe you can.
I need to dig deep and see what things I have a passion for accomplishing.... I am not quite certain.
Warm wishes,
Annie
John, (aka Johnny) is my husband's best friend. They have known each other since the first grade. He lives here in town with his lovely wife and two wonderful daughters. John is a very devoted husband and dad. He is a great friend. He has been very helpful in offering job leads to our son. It's very rare to have a friend for over 40 years and that is a real treasure.
Wayne is a co-worker that works in our warehouse. He just celebrated his 20th anniversary and I wanted him to know how much I appreciated all his hard work and dedication in making the company successful.
I simply had to send another card to my friend Liz. She already knows how much she means to me, but I sent her a congratulations card as she recently passed the 2nd part of the CPA exam. She is finishing up her Master's degree and has passed the first and second tests. I am SOOOOO very proud of her as she has worked and worked extremely hard to accomplish this goal. She is an inspiration to others that it is never too late to accomplish something if you work hard and believe you can.
I need to dig deep and see what things I have a passion for accomplishing.... I am not quite certain.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Sunday, March 11, 2012
Kathy and Stacy
I have know Kathy for many, many years. She works for a competitor but has worked for several other competitors over the years. Her previous jobs were eliminated when the companies she worked for merged or were bought out. She has always been very sweet and caring to me. She has helped me out on more than one occasion when I needed information or help with a particular customer. She has brought me food and flowers when I was out on leave and I appreciate all she does.
I sent a note of appreciation to Stacy at Duke University Hospital. She is the lucky one to have drawnn my blood on my last few appointments. I told her how much I appreciated her professionalism and her knack for getting my blood. It is not that easy as my veins roll and I only have one big vein in my left arm. She is very personable and friendly. I know she sees dozens of people each day and I am sure that is not an easy job.
I hope you have found people in your daily life to be thankful for. Maybe it's the guy at the drive thru at McDonalds or the teller at the bank. Keep your mind open to the amazing people all around you.
Warm wishes,
Annie
I sent a note of appreciation to Stacy at Duke University Hospital. She is the lucky one to have drawnn my blood on my last few appointments. I told her how much I appreciated her professionalism and her knack for getting my blood. It is not that easy as my veins roll and I only have one big vein in my left arm. She is very personable and friendly. I know she sees dozens of people each day and I am sure that is not an easy job.
I hope you have found people in your daily life to be thankful for. Maybe it's the guy at the drive thru at McDonalds or the teller at the bank. Keep your mind open to the amazing people all around you.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Saturday, March 10, 2012
Nicholas
I sent a card to my wonderful son Nick. I used to put notes and encouraging letters on his pillow case when he was in school. I would also tape notes to his mirror telling him things I loved about him. He was such a wonderful baby, he slept through the night when he was 6 weeks old; he was a great car traveler and was pretty easy to take out to eat in public.
He has always had such a loving heart. He has gone on 4 mission trips over the years in high school and college and was a boy scout till high school. He is a devoted member of the young adults group at church. I never hear Nick gossip about anyone or make judgements about them either. I am proud to be his mother and happy to have such a wonderful and loving son.
Hoping you make your day a great one!
Warm wishes
Annie
He has always had such a loving heart. He has gone on 4 mission trips over the years in high school and college and was a boy scout till high school. He is a devoted member of the young adults group at church. I never hear Nick gossip about anyone or make judgements about them either. I am proud to be his mother and happy to have such a wonderful and loving son.
Hoping you make your day a great one!
Warm wishes
Annie
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Nephews Jack and Scott
"Seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world. What you see reflects your thinking. And your thinking but reflects your choice of what you want to see"
I saw that quote and REALLY loved it. I hope you read and re-read that and just sit with that thought; let it really sink in. If you have a situation you can't change and it bothers you, change the way you think about it.
I was so delighted to send Jack and Scott cards. They are our nephews and are both such terrific kids. Jack is the older (new teen) brother and I have never seen such a loving, kind big brother. Jack is incredibly smart and mature for his age. He is athletic and is also getting into the guitar and trumpet. He is a well behaved, well rounded young man and I love seeing Jack and Scott together. You will rarely see them fight. They simply adore each other. Scott is such a loving, carefree youngster. He always has a smile on his face and has a wonderful imagination. He is a cub scout and I know he will be a great boy scout and is sure to be a leader in his troop. He draws people to him with his personality. I wish we could see them more, but I know they both have a great future ahead of them.
I have gotten such lovely feedack from the people who have received my notes. Many of them have said it came at just the right time to cheer them up. Many of them said they didn't deserve my praise; maybe they don't see themselves in the same light as I do.
I hope you have a wonderful day and don't forget to spread the joy/gratitude.
Warm wishes,
Annie
I saw that quote and REALLY loved it. I hope you read and re-read that and just sit with that thought; let it really sink in. If you have a situation you can't change and it bothers you, change the way you think about it.
I was so delighted to send Jack and Scott cards. They are our nephews and are both such terrific kids. Jack is the older (new teen) brother and I have never seen such a loving, kind big brother. Jack is incredibly smart and mature for his age. He is athletic and is also getting into the guitar and trumpet. He is a well behaved, well rounded young man and I love seeing Jack and Scott together. You will rarely see them fight. They simply adore each other. Scott is such a loving, carefree youngster. He always has a smile on his face and has a wonderful imagination. He is a cub scout and I know he will be a great boy scout and is sure to be a leader in his troop. He draws people to him with his personality. I wish we could see them more, but I know they both have a great future ahead of them.
I have gotten such lovely feedack from the people who have received my notes. Many of them have said it came at just the right time to cheer them up. Many of them said they didn't deserve my praise; maybe they don't see themselves in the same light as I do.
I hope you have a wonderful day and don't forget to spread the joy/gratitude.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Cheryl and Rory
Today is the start of a brand new week. Tomorrow is my birthday and I am so very grateful to be having another one. I know it's typical of us all to complain about getting older but I am thinking of it differently. Of course I would like to not LOOK quite so old, but we have to embrace having another opportunity to greet a new day.
I sent Cheryl a note of encouragement as she is going through some health challenges right now. Unfortunately, the doctors can't seem to find what is causing her troubles. She works in our district office in Richmond. She used to be a bookkeeper and was one of the best ones we had. She is so sharp and level headed. Since we only have bookkeepers at our corporate office now, Cheryl helps our district accountant. She has been with the company over 30 years and is a big asset. I pray the doctors find the cause of her problems so she can come back to work and she won't be suffering anymore.
Rory is my son's best friend. They have known each other since the 9th grade. Today is his birthday so I sent him a Happy Birthday card. I told him that I believed in him and that he could do whatever he put his mind to. He has been a really good friend to my son and I wanted him to know I appreciate him and believe in him.
I wish you a blessed day and I'll talk to you soon.
Warmest wishes,
Annie
I sent Cheryl a note of encouragement as she is going through some health challenges right now. Unfortunately, the doctors can't seem to find what is causing her troubles. She works in our district office in Richmond. She used to be a bookkeeper and was one of the best ones we had. She is so sharp and level headed. Since we only have bookkeepers at our corporate office now, Cheryl helps our district accountant. She has been with the company over 30 years and is a big asset. I pray the doctors find the cause of her problems so she can come back to work and she won't be suffering anymore.
Rory is my son's best friend. They have known each other since the 9th grade. Today is his birthday so I sent him a Happy Birthday card. I told him that I believed in him and that he could do whatever he put his mind to. He has been a really good friend to my son and I wanted him to know I appreciate him and believe in him.
I wish you a blessed day and I'll talk to you soon.
Warmest wishes,
Annie
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Kim, Mike and Stacey
I hope your week has been a great one. It's hard to believe it's the middle of the week.
I've known Kim since the mid eighties. We were both financial assistants for the same company, but we were in different cities and worked for different bosses. We used to say someday we would work together. Well in 1988, Mike (who is next in my blog), her boss, quit and I was offered the job; our prediction came true! I still remember my first day in the new place, Kim had a plant delivered to me, welcoming me to my new job. She even let me stay with her and her son for a short time. She is so down to earth was so easy to lead. Since I am directionally impaired, she was my right arm in finding my way around. I looked forward to coming to work with her. We were a good team. One year we dressed up as Laurel and Hardy for Halloween; it was a riot. She and her husband Mike were also a lot of fun to hang out with and we have a lot of great memories. She moved to Kentucky years ago so we don't get to see each other that often.
Mike was Kim's boss before me and when he quit I had the chance for a promotion and was delighted to have the opportunity (he didn't get along with his boss). Mike came back to the company about 8 years ago. Although he is in a different city, we talk often about different issues and situations. I know I can call him to vent or get an honest opinion. He keeps confidences and is a good friend.
Stacey just celebrated her 20th anniversary with our company. She is in Virginia and takes care of the administrative work and has lots of other duties. I sent her an anniversary card and told her that I appreciated all her efforts in helping make the company so successful.
Here's wishing you a week full of love; it's out there all around us, we just have to be open to it and put it out there ourselves. Instead of judging someone who seems unfriendly to you, give them a smile and a kind word.
Love
Annie
I've known Kim since the mid eighties. We were both financial assistants for the same company, but we were in different cities and worked for different bosses. We used to say someday we would work together. Well in 1988, Mike (who is next in my blog), her boss, quit and I was offered the job; our prediction came true! I still remember my first day in the new place, Kim had a plant delivered to me, welcoming me to my new job. She even let me stay with her and her son for a short time. She is so down to earth was so easy to lead. Since I am directionally impaired, she was my right arm in finding my way around. I looked forward to coming to work with her. We were a good team. One year we dressed up as Laurel and Hardy for Halloween; it was a riot. She and her husband Mike were also a lot of fun to hang out with and we have a lot of great memories. She moved to Kentucky years ago so we don't get to see each other that often.
Mike was Kim's boss before me and when he quit I had the chance for a promotion and was delighted to have the opportunity (he didn't get along with his boss). Mike came back to the company about 8 years ago. Although he is in a different city, we talk often about different issues and situations. I know I can call him to vent or get an honest opinion. He keeps confidences and is a good friend.
Stacey just celebrated her 20th anniversary with our company. She is in Virginia and takes care of the administrative work and has lots of other duties. I sent her an anniversary card and told her that I appreciated all her efforts in helping make the company so successful.
Here's wishing you a week full of love; it's out there all around us, we just have to be open to it and put it out there ourselves. Instead of judging someone who seems unfriendly to you, give them a smile and a kind word.
Love
Annie
Monday, February 27, 2012
Garry and Donna & Jay
Happy Monday to you. I hope you have put out good vibes since our last visit. Have you noticed any difference in the way people respond to you or to the way you feel?
Garry is my husband's cousin and Donna is his wife. I admire them both so much. They are both such dedicated family people. Luckily they have ancestory records on both sides that date to many, many generations and they have played a part in that research. Donna is a master seamstress and has made the most beautiful gowns (including wedding gowns) She recently made her new daughter-in-law's wedding gown and it was exquisite. They have raised two wonderful kids, Patrick and Becca. They have obviously done something right. I hope we can get together with them more often since they don't live that far from us.
Jay is the husband of my friend Liz. I met him many, many years ago when he worked for a competitor. He decided to get out of the wholesale credit arena and now works for a bank. He has worked so hard to pass the many, many tests needed to be qualified for his job. His hard work has been rewarded and he has his own branch to run. He is a great listener and gives great advice. I know this because his wife Liz ALWAYS sings his praises. I am so glad they found each other as they are a great match.
I got a call from my friend Terri who got my card on Saturday. She said it came at the exact right time as she was having a rough day and it really cheered her up. It is nice to get feedback, but is also rewarding just writing and mailing out these sentiments. It gives me a chance to focus on the individuals and to say a prayer for them as well.
Hoping your day is filled with blessings.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Garry is my husband's cousin and Donna is his wife. I admire them both so much. They are both such dedicated family people. Luckily they have ancestory records on both sides that date to many, many generations and they have played a part in that research. Donna is a master seamstress and has made the most beautiful gowns (including wedding gowns) She recently made her new daughter-in-law's wedding gown and it was exquisite. They have raised two wonderful kids, Patrick and Becca. They have obviously done something right. I hope we can get together with them more often since they don't live that far from us.
Jay is the husband of my friend Liz. I met him many, many years ago when he worked for a competitor. He decided to get out of the wholesale credit arena and now works for a bank. He has worked so hard to pass the many, many tests needed to be qualified for his job. His hard work has been rewarded and he has his own branch to run. He is a great listener and gives great advice. I know this because his wife Liz ALWAYS sings his praises. I am so glad they found each other as they are a great match.
I got a call from my friend Terri who got my card on Saturday. She said it came at the exact right time as she was having a rough day and it really cheered her up. It is nice to get feedback, but is also rewarding just writing and mailing out these sentiments. It gives me a chance to focus on the individuals and to say a prayer for them as well.
Hoping your day is filled with blessings.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Thursday, February 23, 2012
"Is Annie OK?", and Kristin and Sandi
I got the sweetest call today from my friend Peggy. She doesn't check her mail everyday but she wanted me to know that she really loved the card I sent her. Her daughters Katie and Rachael also got their cards. She said her younger daughter Katie said "Mom I got the sweetest card from Annie, is she OK?" I thought that was hilarious. She thought maybe I was on my last leg and was sending out my final words to people before I croaked!!
I sent my thanks and appreciation to both Sandi and Kristin. They both were my assistants at work until last May when Sandi took another position at another branch with our company. I think she really liked what she did but was afraid of being laid off. I hired Sandi about 6 years ago and I really connected with her at the interview. She was calm and quiet but was convinced she would be the right person for the job. When I hired her, people in the office asked me if she talked; she was so quiet. But she gradually opened up and let everyone get to know the real "Sandi". She fit into the credit department so well and I really believe she had an inate talent for the job. It is not an easy job but she got along with all the customers and all the employees. I hate that she left but I know she is doing a great job in her current position. I do miss her.
Kristin has been with the company for 11 years and transferred from Charlotte. She has a degree in Finance and is very smart. She does a great job. I never have to ask her twice to do anything. When I was out with my transplant she kept EVERYTHING going so well. I never had a minute of worry. Now who can say that, when they've been out of work for 2 months? I think that is a great testament to her ability. (PLUS, it's obvious she had great training isn't it ? :-). She makes it a joy to come to work.
OH! I got another wonderful call from my friend Liz. She said she got my note when she was having a really bad day and she said my words made her cry as she was so touched. We talked about gratitude and starting the day with words of inspiration and how that can change us and who we truly are. I can tell you that doing this adventure and keeping my nightly gratitude journal has been very good for me. If you are feeling "lack" in your life or maybe suffering from a little depression, I encourage you to take a small step and start your gratitude journal. If you are feeling that your life is in turmoil or nothing is good, you can be grateful for the smallest of things; for your toothbrush, for a safe comfy bed, for freedom of speech, for a full head of hair.... I think you get the idea. Let me hear from you! I know I am grateful for getting to go for blood work tomorrow at Duke!
Yours truly,
Annie
I sent my thanks and appreciation to both Sandi and Kristin. They both were my assistants at work until last May when Sandi took another position at another branch with our company. I think she really liked what she did but was afraid of being laid off. I hired Sandi about 6 years ago and I really connected with her at the interview. She was calm and quiet but was convinced she would be the right person for the job. When I hired her, people in the office asked me if she talked; she was so quiet. But she gradually opened up and let everyone get to know the real "Sandi". She fit into the credit department so well and I really believe she had an inate talent for the job. It is not an easy job but she got along with all the customers and all the employees. I hate that she left but I know she is doing a great job in her current position. I do miss her.
Kristin has been with the company for 11 years and transferred from Charlotte. She has a degree in Finance and is very smart. She does a great job. I never have to ask her twice to do anything. When I was out with my transplant she kept EVERYTHING going so well. I never had a minute of worry. Now who can say that, when they've been out of work for 2 months? I think that is a great testament to her ability. (PLUS, it's obvious she had great training isn't it ? :-). She makes it a joy to come to work.
OH! I got another wonderful call from my friend Liz. She said she got my note when she was having a really bad day and she said my words made her cry as she was so touched. We talked about gratitude and starting the day with words of inspiration and how that can change us and who we truly are. I can tell you that doing this adventure and keeping my nightly gratitude journal has been very good for me. If you are feeling "lack" in your life or maybe suffering from a little depression, I encourage you to take a small step and start your gratitude journal. If you are feeling that your life is in turmoil or nothing is good, you can be grateful for the smallest of things; for your toothbrush, for a safe comfy bed, for freedom of speech, for a full head of hair.... I think you get the idea. Let me hear from you! I know I am grateful for getting to go for blood work tomorrow at Duke!
Yours truly,
Annie
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Greg and Loretta
I like to recall the lyrics to a favorite James Taylor song: "Shower the people you love with love, show them the way that you feel. Things are gonna work out fine if you only will. Shower the people you love with love, show them the way that you feel. Things are gonna be much better if you only will".
Hopefully you have showered your loved ones with love and they have showered you with theirs.
Greg is another attorney that does work for us (he is with the same firm as David). He handles a lot of collection cases for us and does such a wonderful job. He really spoils us when we have to use attorney's in other states. We expect the same caliber of work he does and the other firms never match up. He is a big family man; a devoted husband and dad and is a great example to others. Those attorney jokes definitely don't apply to him!
Loretta is a friend we have not seen in about a year or more. But I know whenever we see each other it would be just where we left off. We met her when her husband Richard came to work with us. They were both from Tennessee. We clicked with Richard right away and when we met Loretta, my first impression of her was "This girl cannot possibly be real, no one is THIS nice". Turns out, Loretta IS this nice. She is smart, hardworking, geniune and loyal and fun. We have so many fun memories, starting with going to NC State football games together for many years, cook outs, and just being together. Nick always loved to see Loretta and Richard and just had to sit next to them when we were together. When Richard passed away about 11 years ago she was just devastated. He was the love of her life. She continues to work, work, work and work. We don't see each other much as we now live about 90 miles away but I still love and miss her very much. I pray she finds someone to love and share her life with as she is amazing.
Hoping you are open to all the goodness around you. We usually find what we are looking for and focusing on, so try to find and focus on the good in all.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Hopefully you have showered your loved ones with love and they have showered you with theirs.
Greg is another attorney that does work for us (he is with the same firm as David). He handles a lot of collection cases for us and does such a wonderful job. He really spoils us when we have to use attorney's in other states. We expect the same caliber of work he does and the other firms never match up. He is a big family man; a devoted husband and dad and is a great example to others. Those attorney jokes definitely don't apply to him!
Loretta is a friend we have not seen in about a year or more. But I know whenever we see each other it would be just where we left off. We met her when her husband Richard came to work with us. They were both from Tennessee. We clicked with Richard right away and when we met Loretta, my first impression of her was "This girl cannot possibly be real, no one is THIS nice". Turns out, Loretta IS this nice. She is smart, hardworking, geniune and loyal and fun. We have so many fun memories, starting with going to NC State football games together for many years, cook outs, and just being together. Nick always loved to see Loretta and Richard and just had to sit next to them when we were together. When Richard passed away about 11 years ago she was just devastated. He was the love of her life. She continues to work, work, work and work. We don't see each other much as we now live about 90 miles away but I still love and miss her very much. I pray she finds someone to love and share her life with as she is amazing.
Hoping you are open to all the goodness around you. We usually find what we are looking for and focusing on, so try to find and focus on the good in all.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Monday, February 20, 2012
Encouragement, Appreciation and Sympathy
My friend and former co-worker Veronica is going through a very rough time right now. She recently called and just sounded so incredibly overwhelmed with everything. She lives in a different city but I sent her a card of encouragement and wanted to let her know that I am here for her; whether it's with a phone call, a note or a visit to see her. Of course I have her in my daily prayers and pray that God gives her strength and comfort.
I sent a note to Terri. She is the wife of a co-worker who works at a different location than I do. She is a mom, wife, friend and is a full time art student. She is so very generous with her time and talents and sees the good in all people. The compassion she has for others is inspiring. At Christmas time, she donated her time and talents from 7am to 7pm to The Christmas Store ( a church mission). She took Christmas portraits of families all day long. She was so loving and patient with each and every family. We share a lot of common interests and I am looking forward to getting to know her better.
Danny is one of the managers in our Wilmington location and he lost his mother this weekend. She had suffered from Alzheimers and was in hospice. He lost his wife many years ago to cancer and I just wanted him to know I was thinking of him and praying for him and his family. Even though you know your loved one is ill, you are never really ready to lose them.
I got a phone call today from Jerry, a former manager who retired in 2003. He and his wife Ann just got back from a three week trip to Florida and in his pile of mail was my note to him. He said he was so touched and wanted me to know the joy that my note brought him (as well as the memories).
It is so rewarding getting calls and letters from people I have expressed my sentiments to.
In case you didn't know, you cannot be depressed and grateful at the same time. I have found that by keeping a daily gratitude journal, I am more open to all the positive things in my life. I also try to practice random acts of kindness on a regular basis. One thing I do (each pay day) while I'm going through the early morning drive thru is to pay for the person's bill behind me. I love to see the look on their face in the rear view mirror when they find out their bill has been paid.
I would love to hear your ideas for random acts of kindness.
Warm wishes,
Annie
I sent a note to Terri. She is the wife of a co-worker who works at a different location than I do. She is a mom, wife, friend and is a full time art student. She is so very generous with her time and talents and sees the good in all people. The compassion she has for others is inspiring. At Christmas time, she donated her time and talents from 7am to 7pm to The Christmas Store ( a church mission). She took Christmas portraits of families all day long. She was so loving and patient with each and every family. We share a lot of common interests and I am looking forward to getting to know her better.
Danny is one of the managers in our Wilmington location and he lost his mother this weekend. She had suffered from Alzheimers and was in hospice. He lost his wife many years ago to cancer and I just wanted him to know I was thinking of him and praying for him and his family. Even though you know your loved one is ill, you are never really ready to lose them.
I got a phone call today from Jerry, a former manager who retired in 2003. He and his wife Ann just got back from a three week trip to Florida and in his pile of mail was my note to him. He said he was so touched and wanted me to know the joy that my note brought him (as well as the memories).
It is so rewarding getting calls and letters from people I have expressed my sentiments to.
In case you didn't know, you cannot be depressed and grateful at the same time. I have found that by keeping a daily gratitude journal, I am more open to all the positive things in my life. I also try to practice random acts of kindness on a regular basis. One thing I do (each pay day) while I'm going through the early morning drive thru is to pay for the person's bill behind me. I love to see the look on their face in the rear view mirror when they find out their bill has been paid.
I would love to hear your ideas for random acts of kindness.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Thursday, February 16, 2012
Rachael and Katie and feedback
Rachael and Katie are sisters and wonderful young ladies they both are! They are the daughters of my husband's best friend Johnny and his wife Peggy. Rachael is the oldest and Katie is just a few years behind her. It's hard to believe they are both teenagers. They get along so well and are so much their own person. Rachael is driving now and both are so smart, mature and loving. It is so nice to see young ladies who are so respectful of themselves and other people as well. I know they both have a bright future and I believe they will achieve whatever it is they set out to. I am very proud of both of them.
I got feedback on the notes I sent to a few people this week. I had to go to the dentist for my cleaning on Monday and the dentist said he really appreciated my card and my kind words and that he had kept the card I sent him.
Yesterday I received a card in the mail from my former boss Dave who is retired and lives in Virginia. He said he was happy to hear from me and appreciated my words of praise. He said as a boss you just never know how the people you have supervised over the years felt about you. He said he learned as much from me as I did from him (hard to believe!) and that he never wanted the job to be all work and no play, which is why he was so much fun. I really miss him and am glad I told him how he impacted my life.
I would love to hear of any stories you have about people you are grateful for!
Pay attention to the positive and you will see and experience more positive things in your life!
Make it a great day!
Annie
I got feedback on the notes I sent to a few people this week. I had to go to the dentist for my cleaning on Monday and the dentist said he really appreciated my card and my kind words and that he had kept the card I sent him.
Yesterday I received a card in the mail from my former boss Dave who is retired and lives in Virginia. He said he was happy to hear from me and appreciated my words of praise. He said as a boss you just never know how the people you have supervised over the years felt about you. He said he learned as much from me as I did from him (hard to believe!) and that he never wanted the job to be all work and no play, which is why he was so much fun. I really miss him and am glad I told him how he impacted my life.
I would love to hear of any stories you have about people you are grateful for!
Pay attention to the positive and you will see and experience more positive things in your life!
Make it a great day!
Annie
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Bobbie, Ron and Sharon, Walt
I hope your Valentine's Day was filled with love; love for yourself and love for others. I know mine was overflowing.
Sharon is my husband's cousin and Ron is her husband. I admire them so very much. They are such a wonderful example of how to keep a marriage going strong. They are so loving and giving and they both love to have a good time. They have raised three beautiful daughters who love to hang out with them. That is no accident as family means so much to them. Now they get to enjoy their beautiful grandchildren and they get to influence the next generation.
I met Bobbie many years ago when I decided to join a Toastmasters group. She was the group's President and she just filled the room with enthusiasm and energy. She was the heart of the group. I knew right away she was someone very special. Her light illuminates all those she meets. She is a devoted Christian and I truly see Christ through her actions and her words. She recently got her PhD and is such an inspiration. She has a definite gift and she has touched my life is so many ways. I want to be a better person because of her. The only thing I would change is to be able to spend more time with her. I am truly blessed.
A customer (Walt) dropped in yesterday to pay his bill and we talked for a while. He told me that the 13th was the second anniversary of his son's death by a drunk driver (his son was in the car with the drunk driver). I felt such compassion for him as he told me his story and can't imagine his sorrow. So I wanted to send him a card to tell him he was in my prayers and that I prayed that God wrapped his arms around him and gave him comfort and strength.
I pray that you are comforted and strengthened as you go out into the world and that you may be a comfort to others.
Sweet dreams,
Annie
Sharon is my husband's cousin and Ron is her husband. I admire them so very much. They are such a wonderful example of how to keep a marriage going strong. They are so loving and giving and they both love to have a good time. They have raised three beautiful daughters who love to hang out with them. That is no accident as family means so much to them. Now they get to enjoy their beautiful grandchildren and they get to influence the next generation.
I met Bobbie many years ago when I decided to join a Toastmasters group. She was the group's President and she just filled the room with enthusiasm and energy. She was the heart of the group. I knew right away she was someone very special. Her light illuminates all those she meets. She is a devoted Christian and I truly see Christ through her actions and her words. She recently got her PhD and is such an inspiration. She has a definite gift and she has touched my life is so many ways. I want to be a better person because of her. The only thing I would change is to be able to spend more time with her. I am truly blessed.
A customer (Walt) dropped in yesterday to pay his bill and we talked for a while. He told me that the 13th was the second anniversary of his son's death by a drunk driver (his son was in the car with the drunk driver). I felt such compassion for him as he told me his story and can't imagine his sorrow. So I wanted to send him a card to tell him he was in my prayers and that I prayed that God wrapped his arms around him and gave him comfort and strength.
I pray that you are comforted and strengthened as you go out into the world and that you may be a comfort to others.
Sweet dreams,
Annie
Monday, February 13, 2012
Tammy, Chris, Earl & Mary
Yesterday would have been my mom's 86th birthday. I have so much to be grateful to her for. She raised my sister and me as a divorced mom and taught us self-reliance, honesty and integrity. She led by example. She was an RN and stressed education and taught us the value of a dollar and that we had to work hard to make a good life. Every night before we went to bed she said "Good night, sleep tight, I love you". She used to let me sneak into her bed when I couldn't sleep. Even though we grew up without much money, we always knew she loved us and she sacrificed so much for us. I love her so much.
Last week I sent a get well card to Tammy. She works in our Roanoke branch and is out on leave after having surgery. She keeps all the administrative work up to date and is so knowledgeable. I definitely miss having her at work and can't wait for her to return. I hope she is recovering well.
Chris is my friend Liz's mother. Although we haven't been around each other on a regular basis, I have enjoyed the times we have spent together. I have fond memories of times together with her and Liz at Smith Mountain Lake and the VA wine festival. She goes with the flow and is willing to try new things. She has survived the loss of her husband and her son and also survived lung cancer. She is a strong woman. I hope to see more of her in the coming year.
I then sent a card to my husband's cousin Mary and her husband Earl. They live in Canada. The first time I met them was 25 years ago when they came down to our wedding. She is a nurse and he worked at a nuclear plant. They have 3 grown kids and they are so laid back. Sometimes I think we are kindred spirits. They have made such an effort to come to family events all the way from Canada. We took a trip a few years ago to their place when their daughter got married. It was loads of fun & was especially great meeting all of their relatives. I hope to see them soon.
Here's hoping you have a wonderful evening and sweet dreams.
Warm wishes
Annie
Last week I sent a get well card to Tammy. She works in our Roanoke branch and is out on leave after having surgery. She keeps all the administrative work up to date and is so knowledgeable. I definitely miss having her at work and can't wait for her to return. I hope she is recovering well.
Chris is my friend Liz's mother. Although we haven't been around each other on a regular basis, I have enjoyed the times we have spent together. I have fond memories of times together with her and Liz at Smith Mountain Lake and the VA wine festival. She goes with the flow and is willing to try new things. She has survived the loss of her husband and her son and also survived lung cancer. She is a strong woman. I hope to see more of her in the coming year.
I then sent a card to my husband's cousin Mary and her husband Earl. They live in Canada. The first time I met them was 25 years ago when they came down to our wedding. She is a nurse and he worked at a nuclear plant. They have 3 grown kids and they are so laid back. Sometimes I think we are kindred spirits. They have made such an effort to come to family events all the way from Canada. We took a trip a few years ago to their place when their daughter got married. It was loads of fun & was especially great meeting all of their relatives. I hope to see them soon.
Here's hoping you have a wonderful evening and sweet dreams.
Warm wishes
Annie
Friday, February 10, 2012
Liz, Patricia and Charlotte
I hope you were someone that others were grateful for this week. Did you find joy in what others had to offer? I hope so.
I have known Liz for over twenty years. We met back in the early 90's as we were both financial managers (for competitors). We have sons the same age so we have a lot in common. We were both "green" managers and over the years we relied on each other so very much; both professionally and personally. She was a divorced mom, raising her son. She went back to school to get her B.S. in business while she worked full time. She is such an inspiration. We have so many fun and fond memories and I so adore her. Now she is getting her masters degree and I have no doubt she will get her CPA when she is done. I still call her for advice as I cannot think of anyone else who is so wise and gives just the right feedback. She is an amazing woman.
Patricia is my husband's aunt (she was married to my husband's father's brother). Although we haven't spent an enormous amount of time together, I have always enjoyed her company. Before she retired from banking years ago, we used to go to lunch together periodically. She has such a calm manner about her and is a very good listener. She is also very adventureous. I hope to spend more time with her in the coming year!
I sent a get well card to my friend Dawn's mother Charlotte. She was supposed to have cataract surgery but ended up having to have a pre-cataract surgery to remove a bump in her eye. I just wanted to encourage her and let her know I was thinking of her and wishing her a speedy recovery.
Here's wishing you a wonderful day. May you see the miracles that surround all of us.
Take care,
Annie
I have known Liz for over twenty years. We met back in the early 90's as we were both financial managers (for competitors). We have sons the same age so we have a lot in common. We were both "green" managers and over the years we relied on each other so very much; both professionally and personally. She was a divorced mom, raising her son. She went back to school to get her B.S. in business while she worked full time. She is such an inspiration. We have so many fun and fond memories and I so adore her. Now she is getting her masters degree and I have no doubt she will get her CPA when she is done. I still call her for advice as I cannot think of anyone else who is so wise and gives just the right feedback. She is an amazing woman.
Patricia is my husband's aunt (she was married to my husband's father's brother). Although we haven't spent an enormous amount of time together, I have always enjoyed her company. Before she retired from banking years ago, we used to go to lunch together periodically. She has such a calm manner about her and is a very good listener. She is also very adventureous. I hope to spend more time with her in the coming year!
I sent a get well card to my friend Dawn's mother Charlotte. She was supposed to have cataract surgery but ended up having to have a pre-cataract surgery to remove a bump in her eye. I just wanted to encourage her and let her know I was thinking of her and wishing her a speedy recovery.
Here's wishing you a wonderful day. May you see the miracles that surround all of us.
Take care,
Annie
Monday, February 6, 2012
Peggy and Mary Lynn
How about those Giants? Rah! Rah! Rah! I guess they're going to the Super Bowl!! :-)
My husband has known Johnny since first grade. He married a wonderful woman named Peggy. I told her how much I admire and respect her. She is an amazing and wonderful mom and is so very devoted to Johnny and their two beautiful young daughters. She has beauty AND brains. She has a degree from UNC and previously worked as a chemist before she became a stay at home mom. She has set such a great example to her girls and I really admire her and enjoy her friendship.
I haven't see Mary Lynn for over seven years. She used to work for me in Raleigh. I really enjoyed working with her and mentoring her in credit. She was so eager to learn and was very professional in her job. She was also a friend and really liked to have a good time. I miss seeing her and hope we can get together sometime soon.
Is there anyone you haven't seen in a long while? Why not give them a call and touch base with them and tell them what they mean to you?
Try to bring out the best is other people, it can't help but bring out the best in you!
Sweet dreams,
Annie
My husband has known Johnny since first grade. He married a wonderful woman named Peggy. I told her how much I admire and respect her. She is an amazing and wonderful mom and is so very devoted to Johnny and their two beautiful young daughters. She has beauty AND brains. She has a degree from UNC and previously worked as a chemist before she became a stay at home mom. She has set such a great example to her girls and I really admire her and enjoy her friendship.
I haven't see Mary Lynn for over seven years. She used to work for me in Raleigh. I really enjoyed working with her and mentoring her in credit. She was so eager to learn and was very professional in her job. She was also a friend and really liked to have a good time. I miss seeing her and hope we can get together sometime soon.
Is there anyone you haven't seen in a long while? Why not give them a call and touch base with them and tell them what they mean to you?
Try to bring out the best is other people, it can't help but bring out the best in you!
Sweet dreams,
Annie
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Jerry, Pat and Maureen
Happy Super Bowl Eve! Are you into the Big Game or maybe just into the commercials? Personally, I love all of it. Even though none of my favorite teams are in it, we will all be rooting for the Giants!
I am grateful for being able to get together and gather around the TV and eat all the delicious food that is not that healthy for us!
I sent a retiree from Raleigh a long overdue card. Although it has probably been over 15 years since Jerry retired, we did work together as managers for quite a few years. I was a brand new manager when I moved to Raleigh and he was a seasoned manager of customer service. From the very first day of my new job back in 1988 he made me feel right at home. He showed me the ropes around Raleigh and who knew Raleigh had SO many diners. I think we ate at every single out of the way diners (including Joe's Mama's Diner) in the city. He was very inquisitive and detail oriented and he absolutely knew his stuff. I know he and his wife are enjoying their retirement.
My sister Maureen got my next card. How do you thank your one and only sister (older one) for all she has done for you your whole life? Well, I gave it my best shot. I told her how very much she meant to me and how much I love her. She was such a role model to me growing up. I thought the sun rose and set around her. We used to go up the street to the hairdresser Angie's place and we would PLAY hairdresser. She would do my hair and I would do hers. We used to take the bus to Haulover Beach with friends and stay all day until we looked like lobsters (no sun screen back in the day). We were in the high school marching band and competitive color guard. We had so much fun and she was not afraid to be seen with her "little sister". Now that we live in different states we don't see each other that often but we still love and adore each other.
My son's best friend's mother Pat definitely deserves a thank you note. My son and her son have been friends since high school. My son has spent so much time at her house that I think we need to send her money for room and board. I really appreciate her hospitality and her treating my son like one of her own.
I did receive a note yesterday from Mac. He said he really appreciated my "simple sentiments" and wished me and my family well. He extended an open invitation to us for visits to his place in the mountains. We hope to take him up on this invitation in the spring!
Hoping you're finding people to thank and things to be grateful for in your everyday life. Drop a line and tell me about it.
Make it a great day!
Annie
I am grateful for being able to get together and gather around the TV and eat all the delicious food that is not that healthy for us!
I sent a retiree from Raleigh a long overdue card. Although it has probably been over 15 years since Jerry retired, we did work together as managers for quite a few years. I was a brand new manager when I moved to Raleigh and he was a seasoned manager of customer service. From the very first day of my new job back in 1988 he made me feel right at home. He showed me the ropes around Raleigh and who knew Raleigh had SO many diners. I think we ate at every single out of the way diners (including Joe's Mama's Diner) in the city. He was very inquisitive and detail oriented and he absolutely knew his stuff. I know he and his wife are enjoying their retirement.
My sister Maureen got my next card. How do you thank your one and only sister (older one) for all she has done for you your whole life? Well, I gave it my best shot. I told her how very much she meant to me and how much I love her. She was such a role model to me growing up. I thought the sun rose and set around her. We used to go up the street to the hairdresser Angie's place and we would PLAY hairdresser. She would do my hair and I would do hers. We used to take the bus to Haulover Beach with friends and stay all day until we looked like lobsters (no sun screen back in the day). We were in the high school marching band and competitive color guard. We had so much fun and she was not afraid to be seen with her "little sister". Now that we live in different states we don't see each other that often but we still love and adore each other.
My son's best friend's mother Pat definitely deserves a thank you note. My son and her son have been friends since high school. My son has spent so much time at her house that I think we need to send her money for room and board. I really appreciate her hospitality and her treating my son like one of her own.
I did receive a note yesterday from Mac. He said he really appreciated my "simple sentiments" and wished me and my family well. He extended an open invitation to us for visits to his place in the mountains. We hope to take him up on this invitation in the spring!
Hoping you're finding people to thank and things to be grateful for in your everyday life. Drop a line and tell me about it.
Make it a great day!
Annie
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Gail, Heather and Eloise
Long time no post. Hope you found lots to be grateful for this week. Did you brighten any one's day?
I felt the calling to send a note to my only living Aunt's niece, Gail. She lives in the same town as my Aunt. Although she has lots of other family members to look after and check on, she always makes time for Aunt Kae. I really appreciate that, as Aunt Kae will be 93 on Sunday and she lives alone in a house in NJ (with a nice steep basement). Aunt Kae has no kids and Uncle Charlie passed away about 10 years ago. I wanted Gail to know that even though we don't see each other that often, that I have always enjoyed being around her. I told her how I appreciated her taking such good care of Aunt Kae and that I hoped to see her soon if she came to NC (her daughter and her family just moved to Raleigh, after living with her for several years).
I have missed my friend Eloise as she was able to retire a year or two ago. She lives in Saluda, VA and I have known her for many, many years through our industry. She is such an amazing, energetic woman. Every time I see her, she enters a room with a dazzling smile and her loving heart comes right through. If you were in a bad mood or down about anything, you could always count on her to make you forget all that and be cheery too. She is now busy enjoying her daughter, sons and grandchildren.
Heather and I were both Financial Managers until recently when she accepted a new position within our company in marketing. I wanted to let her know how much I admired her. She was a bright young face when she started with our company and advanced to several positions. I told her I thought that she had a bright future with our company and I can see her heading to upper management. She is also a devoted mother of two young sons and loves to run marathons.
If you have any inspirations or have been blessed by anyone, I would love to hear back from you. Just keep your eyes and ears open as you go about your day. Blessings are all around us; we just have to pay attention to those instead of all the things we seem to want to complain about.
Blessings to all,
Annie
I felt the calling to send a note to my only living Aunt's niece, Gail. She lives in the same town as my Aunt. Although she has lots of other family members to look after and check on, she always makes time for Aunt Kae. I really appreciate that, as Aunt Kae will be 93 on Sunday and she lives alone in a house in NJ (with a nice steep basement). Aunt Kae has no kids and Uncle Charlie passed away about 10 years ago. I wanted Gail to know that even though we don't see each other that often, that I have always enjoyed being around her. I told her how I appreciated her taking such good care of Aunt Kae and that I hoped to see her soon if she came to NC (her daughter and her family just moved to Raleigh, after living with her for several years).
I have missed my friend Eloise as she was able to retire a year or two ago. She lives in Saluda, VA and I have known her for many, many years through our industry. She is such an amazing, energetic woman. Every time I see her, she enters a room with a dazzling smile and her loving heart comes right through. If you were in a bad mood or down about anything, you could always count on her to make you forget all that and be cheery too. She is now busy enjoying her daughter, sons and grandchildren.
Heather and I were both Financial Managers until recently when she accepted a new position within our company in marketing. I wanted to let her know how much I admired her. She was a bright young face when she started with our company and advanced to several positions. I told her I thought that she had a bright future with our company and I can see her heading to upper management. She is also a devoted mother of two young sons and loves to run marathons.
If you have any inspirations or have been blessed by anyone, I would love to hear back from you. Just keep your eyes and ears open as you go about your day. Blessings are all around us; we just have to pay attention to those instead of all the things we seem to want to complain about.
Blessings to all,
Annie
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Mac, Dave and Beth
Are you finding things to be grateful for that you had not thought of before? As soon as we are more mindful of all the people and things to be grateful for, the more goodness seems to come out of the woodwork.
I sent a heartfelt card to Mac. He was a colleague that worked in VA and retired several years ago. Mac was the ultimate credit professional and was close to a paralegal. He was a dedicated employee and was someone to turn to if I needed to get advice. He brought a lightness to our job and is such a fine and admirable person. Work is definitely different since he retired.
Dave was a one in a million boss. After working with Don for 4 years, Dave (he was Don's boss) called me up out of the blue at work and said "How would you like to move to Raleigh?" That was my official job interview and offer! I was both terrified and thrilled at the prospect of being a manager (like Don and Mac). I did not think I was qualified for the job, but I thought if he had confidence that I could do the job, maybe he knew something I didn't. I do not think I would have been as successful at my job if it were not for Dave. He was a great boss; not the most tactful one, but he was always spot on when he questioned me about a customer. Plus, he LOVED to have fun. He was a great dancer and loved to go to Myrtle Beach with our credit group. He was definitely not all work and no play. I learned we can work hard in doing our job and still have a great time. I have such wonderful memories of those "good ole days".
I was very grateful to Beth for coming to meet me and a co-worker to discuss how we could get involved in the Donate Life organization. She has a nursing degree but is dedicated to making people aware of the importance of organ and tissue donation. She was so well spoken and you could tell she is so very dedicated to what she is doing. I learned a lot in the 40 minutes she spent with us and Sylvia and I are very excited about getting involved. Sylvia's ex-husband passed away recently and he donated tissue and bones and corneas. So we both have a connection and an interest in spreading awareness of the importance of organ and tissue donation.
I hope your week is a great one. Keep your eyes and ears open for opportunities to be grateful.
Warm wishes
Annie
I sent a heartfelt card to Mac. He was a colleague that worked in VA and retired several years ago. Mac was the ultimate credit professional and was close to a paralegal. He was a dedicated employee and was someone to turn to if I needed to get advice. He brought a lightness to our job and is such a fine and admirable person. Work is definitely different since he retired.
Dave was a one in a million boss. After working with Don for 4 years, Dave (he was Don's boss) called me up out of the blue at work and said "How would you like to move to Raleigh?" That was my official job interview and offer! I was both terrified and thrilled at the prospect of being a manager (like Don and Mac). I did not think I was qualified for the job, but I thought if he had confidence that I could do the job, maybe he knew something I didn't. I do not think I would have been as successful at my job if it were not for Dave. He was a great boss; not the most tactful one, but he was always spot on when he questioned me about a customer. Plus, he LOVED to have fun. He was a great dancer and loved to go to Myrtle Beach with our credit group. He was definitely not all work and no play. I learned we can work hard in doing our job and still have a great time. I have such wonderful memories of those "good ole days".
I was very grateful to Beth for coming to meet me and a co-worker to discuss how we could get involved in the Donate Life organization. She has a nursing degree but is dedicated to making people aware of the importance of organ and tissue donation. She was so well spoken and you could tell she is so very dedicated to what she is doing. I learned a lot in the 40 minutes she spent with us and Sylvia and I are very excited about getting involved. Sylvia's ex-husband passed away recently and he donated tissue and bones and corneas. So we both have a connection and an interest in spreading awareness of the importance of organ and tissue donation.
I hope your week is a great one. Keep your eyes and ears open for opportunities to be grateful.
Warm wishes
Annie
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Walt, Chef Don and Antony
I hope your week has been a fantastic one. To quote Maya Angelou "Every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug or just a friendly pat on the back".
Walt is a co-worker and I've known him for 10 years. His 84 year old mother passed away last week. She was suffering from Alzheimers and Walt loved her dearly. I sent him a sympathy card expressing my deepest sympathies. Even though you may have a loved one who you know is ill, it is still so devastating to lose them. I pray for Walt and his family as they grieve the loss of their loved one.
I sent a thank you note to Chef Don who teaches cooking classes in Winston. I went to a class on how to use knives and he was such a good instructor. He was so generous and gave each of us (over 24) a paring knife and a knife sharpener (called a "steel"). It was obvious that he and his staff put a lot of time and energy into preparing for the class. I will be going back for more lessons!
The last card I sent was a thank you note to Antony. He is the President of our Credit Group and he came to visit our group for the first time. (He is from Orlando). He was very professional, answered our questions and concerns and it was a very good meeting. So I thanked him and told him that I appreciated his efforts.
To close, another quote from Maya Angelou, "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel".
Make it a great day.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Walt is a co-worker and I've known him for 10 years. His 84 year old mother passed away last week. She was suffering from Alzheimers and Walt loved her dearly. I sent him a sympathy card expressing my deepest sympathies. Even though you may have a loved one who you know is ill, it is still so devastating to lose them. I pray for Walt and his family as they grieve the loss of their loved one.
I sent a thank you note to Chef Don who teaches cooking classes in Winston. I went to a class on how to use knives and he was such a good instructor. He was so generous and gave each of us (over 24) a paring knife and a knife sharpener (called a "steel"). It was obvious that he and his staff put a lot of time and energy into preparing for the class. I will be going back for more lessons!
The last card I sent was a thank you note to Antony. He is the President of our Credit Group and he came to visit our group for the first time. (He is from Orlando). He was very professional, answered our questions and concerns and it was a very good meeting. So I thanked him and told him that I appreciated his efforts.
To close, another quote from Maya Angelou, "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel".
Make it a great day.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Dawn, Stephanie and John
Hope you have had a great week and weekend. I am excited as I have found several new people to add to the list of recipients of my simple sentiments. If you really pay attention, you can find people to thank in the oddest of places. Since I am not exactly sure I KNOW 365 people, I am really trying to pay attention to the people in my life who are making it better (and maybe they don't even know it)
The people who I have written to most recently include a friend that I have know for about 15 years. Her name is Dawn and she was hired in another departement where I worked (in Raleigh). When I had an opening as a collection assistant she applied and I hired her. Dawn was a working machine. She could put out some work and it was always well done. She was eager to learn and was a very loyal employee. She was promoted and moved to another city as Financial Manager. When I was promoted and moved back to Greensboro, she took my job in Raleigh. Since both have the same job, she continues to be a great friend. I know I can count on her to keep confidences and if I call her she will be right over. She stayed with me in the hospital after my transplant and came over to take care of me (and give David a break). Even though we are in different cities, she is only a call away and I am proud to have her as my friend.
Stephanie is my one and only niece. She is 24 and is a firefighter/paramedic. She is beautiful inside and outside and has always amazed me. She was a very precocious youngster and has a wonderful heart. She is also very independent and has gone on many, many adventure trips by herself while in high school. As a firefighter she was the only female in her class and was in the top of her class. I am so proud of her and can't wait to see what her future holds.
John is my cousin (in-law) and lives in Virginia. He has always been devoted to his family roots. Although he is not married and has no children, he always makes sure he comes to the family events and is so good at keeping in touch with us. This year, he sent a picture of his mother on a camel to my husband. He said he remembered my husband mentioning it a few times at family functions. He is so very thoughtful.
Here's hoping your week is a great one. Be Kind.
Warmest wishes,
Annie
The people who I have written to most recently include a friend that I have know for about 15 years. Her name is Dawn and she was hired in another departement where I worked (in Raleigh). When I had an opening as a collection assistant she applied and I hired her. Dawn was a working machine. She could put out some work and it was always well done. She was eager to learn and was a very loyal employee. She was promoted and moved to another city as Financial Manager. When I was promoted and moved back to Greensboro, she took my job in Raleigh. Since both have the same job, she continues to be a great friend. I know I can count on her to keep confidences and if I call her she will be right over. She stayed with me in the hospital after my transplant and came over to take care of me (and give David a break). Even though we are in different cities, she is only a call away and I am proud to have her as my friend.
Stephanie is my one and only niece. She is 24 and is a firefighter/paramedic. She is beautiful inside and outside and has always amazed me. She was a very precocious youngster and has a wonderful heart. She is also very independent and has gone on many, many adventure trips by herself while in high school. As a firefighter she was the only female in her class and was in the top of her class. I am so proud of her and can't wait to see what her future holds.
John is my cousin (in-law) and lives in Virginia. He has always been devoted to his family roots. Although he is not married and has no children, he always makes sure he comes to the family events and is so good at keeping in touch with us. This year, he sent a picture of his mother on a camel to my husband. He said he remembered my husband mentioning it a few times at family functions. He is so very thoughtful.
Here's hoping your week is a great one. Be Kind.
Warmest wishes,
Annie
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Attorney, Dentist and Competitor
Interesting group of people isn't it? That is the beauty of finding people in your life to be grateful for. They are ALL around us, in every part of life; some we don't even know. Let me tell you about this group of people.
I met David, my employer's attorney, about eight years ago. He handles collection issues for us and from the very first case we gave him, he wowed us. He has collected 90+% of all cases we have given him (this includes attorney fees and interest). He has definitely spoiled us, as when we have cases in other states and have to use other attorneys they never live up to our expectations. On a personal level, he has continued to show his concern for me and also for my family. We also enjoy social outings such as ballgames and picnics. He is the ultimate professional and I am honored to have him represent us.
Dale is our family dentist and I started going to him over 25 years ago (took a break when we moved to Raleigh). He had the chore of redoing all of my porcelain crowns and did SUCH a beautiful job I was in heaven. When we moved back to Greensboro in 2002, back to him we went. Since I have such troublesome teeth, I have really kept him busy. He has taken such good care of me and my son and husband and I so appreciate him.
Jimmy I have known about 15+ years and we are in the same industry and are competitors. We are in the same credit association and I can always count on Jimmy to keep confidences. I can rely on him should I need someone to bounce an idea off of. Over the years we have shared our child rearing issues, and our ups and downs. He was so diligent about calling and emailing me when I was out with my illness just to make sure I was doing well.
Here's wishing you a fantastic day.
Warm wishes,
Annie
I met David, my employer's attorney, about eight years ago. He handles collection issues for us and from the very first case we gave him, he wowed us. He has collected 90+% of all cases we have given him (this includes attorney fees and interest). He has definitely spoiled us, as when we have cases in other states and have to use other attorneys they never live up to our expectations. On a personal level, he has continued to show his concern for me and also for my family. We also enjoy social outings such as ballgames and picnics. He is the ultimate professional and I am honored to have him represent us.
Dale is our family dentist and I started going to him over 25 years ago (took a break when we moved to Raleigh). He had the chore of redoing all of my porcelain crowns and did SUCH a beautiful job I was in heaven. When we moved back to Greensboro in 2002, back to him we went. Since I have such troublesome teeth, I have really kept him busy. He has taken such good care of me and my son and husband and I so appreciate him.
Jimmy I have known about 15+ years and we are in the same industry and are competitors. We are in the same credit association and I can always count on Jimmy to keep confidences. I can rely on him should I need someone to bounce an idea off of. Over the years we have shared our child rearing issues, and our ups and downs. He was so diligent about calling and emailing me when I was out with my illness just to make sure I was doing well.
Here's wishing you a fantastic day.
Warm wishes,
Annie
Saturday, January 14, 2012
8th month anniversary - Thank you cards
Well, I've received three wonderful responses from the notes I have sent. I've always said, we get back what we put out into the universe. If we put out negativity and operate from a perspective of lack that is what we get back. If we put out positive energy and operate from a philosophy of abundance that is also what we get back in our lives.
Anyway, my dear friend Debra was the first person I sent a note to. She said she was very touched by the note I sent and the sentiments I conveyed to her and said it really meant a lot to her. She also said reading the blog has made her pay attention to the people in her life that she needed to acknowledge.
Today I received a note from Davids Uncle David. He said he so appreciated my words and said it was so sweet of me to think of him. He is turning 90 this year and is such an amazing man.
I knew exactly who I was going to send Friday (the 13th) and Saturday (the 14th) cards to. Friday marked the 8th month anniversary of the fateful call I received from Duke telling me to come in for my new kidney. And the 14th marked the 8th month anniversary of my surgery. I immediately thought of the two people at the kidney center who took such good care of me from 12/09 to 5/11. That was Dee and Sara. After Thanksgiving 2009 it was apparent that I need to have the surgery for my dialysis catheter. After I healed from that I had to start peritoneal dialysis. The wonderful nurse and staff at the kidney center are responsible for training patients on how to do dialysis at home. They were both so very kind and patient. During my training, I often drove home and had to pull over to the side of road while I got sick. I had more abdominal pain than most people because I had a hernia and they both took such good care of me. I had to go there every month for lab work and had to bring in my dialysis records and such. I could always count on them to keep me in line and to listen to any problems I had. For that I am eternally grateful. I may even pop in on them soon to say hello and maybe bring them some treats!
Decide today you are going to find 5 things to be grateful for. Tell the people you tend to take for granted, specific things you love and admire about them.
Make it a great night and see you soon!
Annie
Anyway, my dear friend Debra was the first person I sent a note to. She said she was very touched by the note I sent and the sentiments I conveyed to her and said it really meant a lot to her. She also said reading the blog has made her pay attention to the people in her life that she needed to acknowledge.
Today I received a note from Davids Uncle David. He said he so appreciated my words and said it was so sweet of me to think of him. He is turning 90 this year and is such an amazing man.
I knew exactly who I was going to send Friday (the 13th) and Saturday (the 14th) cards to. Friday marked the 8th month anniversary of the fateful call I received from Duke telling me to come in for my new kidney. And the 14th marked the 8th month anniversary of my surgery. I immediately thought of the two people at the kidney center who took such good care of me from 12/09 to 5/11. That was Dee and Sara. After Thanksgiving 2009 it was apparent that I need to have the surgery for my dialysis catheter. After I healed from that I had to start peritoneal dialysis. The wonderful nurse and staff at the kidney center are responsible for training patients on how to do dialysis at home. They were both so very kind and patient. During my training, I often drove home and had to pull over to the side of road while I got sick. I had more abdominal pain than most people because I had a hernia and they both took such good care of me. I had to go there every month for lab work and had to bring in my dialysis records and such. I could always count on them to keep me in line and to listen to any problems I had. For that I am eternally grateful. I may even pop in on them soon to say hello and maybe bring them some treats!
Decide today you are going to find 5 things to be grateful for. Tell the people you tend to take for granted, specific things you love and admire about them.
Make it a great night and see you soon!
Annie
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Angela, Sandy and Daniel
Hope everyone spoke kind, uplifting words today. I tried hard but I know I had some slip ups.
My recent cards were to sent to a friends daughter, a co-workers wife and my nephew.
I have known Angela for over 15 years. She is the daughter of a good friend of mine and is the same age as my son Nick. She has such a sweet smile and is a hard worker. She works as a receptionist and has such a pleasant phone voice. She has had a few rough years and I just wanted to encourage her and tell her what I saw her strengths as. I told her I believed in her and I thought she had a good future in store for her. Sometimes we just need to know that someone out there believes in us (besides our parents who are supposed to believe in us no matter what)
Sandy is the wife of a co-worker (who by the way is a GREAT cook) who recently had back/neck surgery. I sent her a get well card and just wanted to let her know that I was thinking and praying for a speedy recovery. I know it is miserable when you are in constant pain. After my kidney transplant, one of the medicines I was on gave me severe pain in my feet. It was like I had dropped heavy cans on the top of my feet and that they were sprained. I could barely walk around and I know how depressing it is to wonder if your pain will ever go away. Luckily I stopped the medicine and my pain went away. I hope Sandy's recovery is a quick one and that the surgery will cure her pain.
My nephew Daniel is in college in PA and is a senior. I am so proud of how much he has matured and gotten his act together. He is like a big teddy bear and sometimes you just want to pinch him he is so cute. He has worked really hard this year and is focused on his school work. I told him I was proud of him and knew he could do whatever he put his mind to. He is graduating in May!!
I received a blessing today as a result of one of the cards I sent out. I got a call from my former boss Don. He said he got my card and was so surprised and touched. He said he was not worthy of my kind words. He then told me how I made his job so much easier and that I had the gift of intuition that helped make me a good credit manager. Of course he is a very humble man and that is part of what made him such a great leader. A lot of people can manage other people, but not everyone can be a leader.
Pay attention to the people in your life this week (strangers included) and stop and think how you can touch their life. Sometimes it is just with a smile acknowledging that you see them. Also pay attention to the kind acts and deeds of other people.
Make it a great day!
Annie
My recent cards were to sent to a friends daughter, a co-workers wife and my nephew.
I have known Angela for over 15 years. She is the daughter of a good friend of mine and is the same age as my son Nick. She has such a sweet smile and is a hard worker. She works as a receptionist and has such a pleasant phone voice. She has had a few rough years and I just wanted to encourage her and tell her what I saw her strengths as. I told her I believed in her and I thought she had a good future in store for her. Sometimes we just need to know that someone out there believes in us (besides our parents who are supposed to believe in us no matter what)
Sandy is the wife of a co-worker (who by the way is a GREAT cook) who recently had back/neck surgery. I sent her a get well card and just wanted to let her know that I was thinking and praying for a speedy recovery. I know it is miserable when you are in constant pain. After my kidney transplant, one of the medicines I was on gave me severe pain in my feet. It was like I had dropped heavy cans on the top of my feet and that they were sprained. I could barely walk around and I know how depressing it is to wonder if your pain will ever go away. Luckily I stopped the medicine and my pain went away. I hope Sandy's recovery is a quick one and that the surgery will cure her pain.
My nephew Daniel is in college in PA and is a senior. I am so proud of how much he has matured and gotten his act together. He is like a big teddy bear and sometimes you just want to pinch him he is so cute. He has worked really hard this year and is focused on his school work. I told him I was proud of him and knew he could do whatever he put his mind to. He is graduating in May!!
I received a blessing today as a result of one of the cards I sent out. I got a call from my former boss Don. He said he got my card and was so surprised and touched. He said he was not worthy of my kind words. He then told me how I made his job so much easier and that I had the gift of intuition that helped make me a good credit manager. Of course he is a very humble man and that is part of what made him such a great leader. A lot of people can manage other people, but not everyone can be a leader.
Pay attention to the people in your life this week (strangers included) and stop and think how you can touch their life. Sometimes it is just with a smile acknowledging that you see them. Also pay attention to the kind acts and deeds of other people.
Make it a great day!
Annie
Monday, January 9, 2012
Jane and Joyce
Here's hoping you had a fantastic weekend and found lots to be grateful for. I know sometimes it seems hard to find things to be grateful for because we think they have to be big, momentous events. We need to be mindful to be grateful for what seems to us to be mundane; like the warmth and coziness of our bed, electricity, the unconditional love of our pet.... you get the idea.
Sundays card was sent to Jane. Jane is my mother-in-laws (Caroline) neighbor. Not only that, she is an amazing artist and I am in awe of her talent. She is specializing in graphic arts right now (and if you know of anyone hiring in this area, let me know). I think that this year is going to be a great year for her and that God has great things in store for her. I really appreciate the fact that she looks after Caroline and takes good care of her when needed. It is reassuring to us not to have to worry about Caroline not having anyone near her if she should need someone. ( in our absense)
Today I sent Joyce a note expressing my appreciation for her. Joyce works for a competitor and I have known her for years and years and years. She has an incredible work ethic and is very professional. I trust her judgement and know I can ask her for advice if needed. She is someone I can rely on and I know she would not steer me wrong. I found out through our "networking" that she is a really cool lady. She has a passion for geneology and her knowledge in this area is phenomenal. She sings and plays banjo and played and sang ever since she was young. Her stories would keep you entertained for hours. She is dearly devoted to her husband of 30 some years to the love of her life Steve. She is truly a unique woman and I so admire her.
Is there anyone you admire but have kept it secret from them? Why not tell them today?
By the way, if you have some free time, I would highly suggest you rent the movie "Pollyanna" (or read the book).You will find out what the "glad game" is and you might even want to start playing this yourself.
Make it a great day,
Annie
Sundays card was sent to Jane. Jane is my mother-in-laws (Caroline) neighbor. Not only that, she is an amazing artist and I am in awe of her talent. She is specializing in graphic arts right now (and if you know of anyone hiring in this area, let me know). I think that this year is going to be a great year for her and that God has great things in store for her. I really appreciate the fact that she looks after Caroline and takes good care of her when needed. It is reassuring to us not to have to worry about Caroline not having anyone near her if she should need someone. ( in our absense)
Today I sent Joyce a note expressing my appreciation for her. Joyce works for a competitor and I have known her for years and years and years. She has an incredible work ethic and is very professional. I trust her judgement and know I can ask her for advice if needed. She is someone I can rely on and I know she would not steer me wrong. I found out through our "networking" that she is a really cool lady. She has a passion for geneology and her knowledge in this area is phenomenal. She sings and plays banjo and played and sang ever since she was young. Her stories would keep you entertained for hours. She is dearly devoted to her husband of 30 some years to the love of her life Steve. She is truly a unique woman and I so admire her.
Is there anyone you admire but have kept it secret from them? Why not tell them today?
By the way, if you have some free time, I would highly suggest you rent the movie "Pollyanna" (or read the book).You will find out what the "glad game" is and you might even want to start playing this yourself.
Make it a great day,
Annie
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Notes of encouragement - Saturday, January 7, 2012
I am so energized by this journey that I think it has helped me with achieving some of the other simpler goals I set for this month. I have a history of starting projects (all sorts of projects!) and not finishing them. Even when I come up with an idea for a project, the little devilish self talk in me says, "This is just something else you will start and not finish". And it usually is. It seems like a bit of self-sabotage.
Something about this quest, has quieted that little voice and that excites me and gives me hope!
I discovered a co-workers mother (Gladys) had just had surgery in order to start hemo-dialysis. And the father (Edward) is having trouble coping with all that is going on. This is a situation that I relate to and it really touched my heart.
About a year or so ago their daughter passed away with kidney failure. I didn't know her, but when the salesman shared her story (before she passed away) I asked him if I could write her a note. Kidney failure took her eyesight so when she was in the hospital, Edward read my note to her. Shortly after she passed away, I received a full typed page from Edward . It was the most touching note (and I still have it) telling me how much my words of encouragement meant to his daughter and how much she and the family appreciated my sentiments.
Anyway, when I learned of Gladys' surgery and Edwards difficulty coping, I really felt the calling to send them both words of encouragement just to let them know they were in my thoughts and prayers. As you say your daily prayers, please include this family.
I pray that each one of you is touched by the spirit and that God keeps you in his care.
Make it a great day.
Annie
Something about this quest, has quieted that little voice and that excites me and gives me hope!
I discovered a co-workers mother (Gladys) had just had surgery in order to start hemo-dialysis. And the father (Edward) is having trouble coping with all that is going on. This is a situation that I relate to and it really touched my heart.
About a year or so ago their daughter passed away with kidney failure. I didn't know her, but when the salesman shared her story (before she passed away) I asked him if I could write her a note. Kidney failure took her eyesight so when she was in the hospital, Edward read my note to her. Shortly after she passed away, I received a full typed page from Edward . It was the most touching note (and I still have it) telling me how much my words of encouragement meant to his daughter and how much she and the family appreciated my sentiments.
Anyway, when I learned of Gladys' surgery and Edwards difficulty coping, I really felt the calling to send them both words of encouragement just to let them know they were in my thoughts and prayers. As you say your daily prayers, please include this family.
I pray that each one of you is touched by the spirit and that God keeps you in his care.
Make it a great day.
Annie
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Thursday, January 5, 2012
I am so excited by this adventure. I have enjoyed re-reading my posts. Just writing my notes brings back so many memories and I am really able to focus on the person I am writing to that day. I also say a prayer for them as I write and seal their note.
Yesterday I had the honor of writing to my first "mentor" (although that was unofficial). I started working at Graybar in 1982 as a "trainee". I worked in the office and then in the warehouse and progressed to a customer service representative. In 1984 Don offered me a job as his financial assistant.I didn't even know how to operate an adding machine. (I used to take it home every night and practice on it!). He was the first one to show me the pay grade level and how far I could go. He was the ultimate professional in his training as well as when dealing with customers. He walks the walk! I never felt like I made a mistake in my 4 years with him (although I made plenty). THEN he made me feel like I came up with the solution to the problem at hand. That is a true sign of leadership and a rare quality. When I was offered the position I currently have, I could always rely on him for advice if my boss was not available. He is the type of person I can only aspire to be like. I truly adore him and appreciate his leadership/training and friendship. Our life would not be the same if Don had not given me a chance and for that I am forever grateful.
Joe is the recipient of todays card. He is a customer in VA that I have know for many, many years. He is about 70 something years old and is such a hard working businessman. He is one of the few customers who calls me with updates on payment on his account. When I was out on leave from work, he was THE very first person that I received a get well card from. That meant so much to me. Also, while I was out, he would call my assistant at work and ask her how I was doing. He still calls me out of the blue sometime just to ask how I am feeling. I appreciate him as a customer, but I really appreciate his compassion and thoughtfulness.
Here's wishing you a wonderful evening and I hope you make it a great day tomorrow.
Best wishes,
Annie
Yesterday I had the honor of writing to my first "mentor" (although that was unofficial). I started working at Graybar in 1982 as a "trainee". I worked in the office and then in the warehouse and progressed to a customer service representative. In 1984 Don offered me a job as his financial assistant.I didn't even know how to operate an adding machine. (I used to take it home every night and practice on it!). He was the first one to show me the pay grade level and how far I could go. He was the ultimate professional in his training as well as when dealing with customers. He walks the walk! I never felt like I made a mistake in my 4 years with him (although I made plenty). THEN he made me feel like I came up with the solution to the problem at hand. That is a true sign of leadership and a rare quality. When I was offered the position I currently have, I could always rely on him for advice if my boss was not available. He is the type of person I can only aspire to be like. I truly adore him and appreciate his leadership/training and friendship. Our life would not be the same if Don had not given me a chance and for that I am forever grateful.
Joe is the recipient of todays card. He is a customer in VA that I have know for many, many years. He is about 70 something years old and is such a hard working businessman. He is one of the few customers who calls me with updates on payment on his account. When I was out on leave from work, he was THE very first person that I received a get well card from. That meant so much to me. Also, while I was out, he would call my assistant at work and ask her how I was doing. He still calls me out of the blue sometime just to ask how I am feeling. I appreciate him as a customer, but I really appreciate his compassion and thoughtfulness.
Here's wishing you a wonderful evening and I hope you make it a great day tomorrow.
Best wishes,
Annie
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
My first cards, Tuesday, January 3, 2012
So, I sent out my first 3 cards today. I couldn't decide who to send the first cards to; should it be to
family or friends and then of those, who should it be? I decided to send the first card to my friend
Debra. I met Debra about 30 years ago after I graduated from ECU in 1980. I got my degree in
Special Education and back then it was hard to get a job. So I got a job as an Aide and landed in
Debras classroom. She was truly the first friend I ever had who ALWAYS had a good word to say
about everyone. I never heard her say something to put you down under the guise of "just kidding".
That was new to me. I always felt better about myself when she was around. I am a better person
for knowing her. She gives freely of her time, her love and of herself. I hope that you have a friend like Debra in your life. Better yet, I hope YOU are a friend like that.
My next card was to my one and only Aunt. Aunt Kae is 93 and lives by herself in New Jersey. She is the most amazing woman. She and my late Uncle Charlie never had kids of their own. She was always so very supportive of me and my sister and was always there for my mom who raised us by herself. We went on one vacation growing up (in 1969) and that was to her place in NJ. I never knew that I liked meatloaf until I had her meatloaf. It was quite the revelation to find out foods I didn't like at home that I liked at her house. When I was a senior in college,she loaned me $1,000. I paid her back month after month consistently. When I finished paying her back, she sent it back to me. To this day, she continues to be an inspiration to me and my sister. She is a wonderful listener and gives great advice. I love her dearly.
The third card I sent was to Davids Uncle David who lives in Wilmington, NC. He and his late
wife (Aunt Kitty) welcomed me as part of the family the minute I met them (even though I wasn't
family yet). Every time I had to travel to Wilmington for work, they made sure I came to see them
and had dinner ready for me. I never knew my dad, so to me Uncle David was like the dad I never had. When Aunt Kitty suffered from Alzheimers, he went to visit her every single day. He never missed a day. I love him dearly and don't tell him often enough.
Here's wishing you a great New Year. Try to send one card this week to a person in your life who inspired you in some way. You will never know how much you will touch them.
Warm wishes
Annie
family or friends and then of those, who should it be? I decided to send the first card to my friend
Debra. I met Debra about 30 years ago after I graduated from ECU in 1980. I got my degree in
Special Education and back then it was hard to get a job. So I got a job as an Aide and landed in
Debras classroom. She was truly the first friend I ever had who ALWAYS had a good word to say
about everyone. I never heard her say something to put you down under the guise of "just kidding".
That was new to me. I always felt better about myself when she was around. I am a better person
for knowing her. She gives freely of her time, her love and of herself. I hope that you have a friend like Debra in your life. Better yet, I hope YOU are a friend like that.
My next card was to my one and only Aunt. Aunt Kae is 93 and lives by herself in New Jersey. She is the most amazing woman. She and my late Uncle Charlie never had kids of their own. She was always so very supportive of me and my sister and was always there for my mom who raised us by herself. We went on one vacation growing up (in 1969) and that was to her place in NJ. I never knew that I liked meatloaf until I had her meatloaf. It was quite the revelation to find out foods I didn't like at home that I liked at her house. When I was a senior in college,she loaned me $1,000. I paid her back month after month consistently. When I finished paying her back, she sent it back to me. To this day, she continues to be an inspiration to me and my sister. She is a wonderful listener and gives great advice. I love her dearly.
The third card I sent was to Davids Uncle David who lives in Wilmington, NC. He and his late
wife (Aunt Kitty) welcomed me as part of the family the minute I met them (even though I wasn't
family yet). Every time I had to travel to Wilmington for work, they made sure I came to see them
and had dinner ready for me. I never knew my dad, so to me Uncle David was like the dad I never had. When Aunt Kitty suffered from Alzheimers, he went to visit her every single day. He never missed a day. I love him dearly and don't tell him often enough.
Here's wishing you a great New Year. Try to send one card this week to a person in your life who inspired you in some way. You will never know how much you will touch them.
Warm wishes
Annie
Monday, January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
I can't believe I have started a blog. I don't think I have ever even READ a blog. But as we enter into a brand new year, I wanted to embark on a brand new experience (even if it is a bit terrifying).
2010 and 2011 were definitely challenging and wonderful years for me. I was diagnosed with IGA Nephropathy in the early 1990's when we lived in Raleigh, NC. The disease progressed slowly and I was placed on the kidney transplant list at Duke Hospital in 2006. I went on peritoneal dialysis early 2010 and faced some challenges but nothing traumatic. I consider myself very, very lucky that I could do dialysis at home while I slept (or tried to sleep). We received 4-5 calls in the last year but none of them worked out. We were even admitted to the hospital one time and got all hooked up. Then it turned out that the kidney was damaged. Back home we went, I little disappointed but still certain that God was going to provide the perfect kidney for me.
Well the fateful call came on Friday the 13th of May 2011. All I know about the donor is that they were from Raleigh, NC. I had the surgery at 1am on Saturday the 14th and went home on Wednesday. I had the most amazing surgeon and nurses and my amazing family and friends took care of me when I returned home. I did write to the donors family but have not heard back. I pray that each day brings them healing and strength.
ANYWAY, I know we all have so much to be thankful for and often we take things and people for granted. I started a gratitude journal many months ago and it definitely helps me to focus on the positive. I have always loved sending letters and note cards to people and have done so over the years (even to people I do not know). I heard about someone who sent out a note a day for a year to people who touched their life and that really inspired me and got me to thinking about that.
So I made my list and got my cards and have started on my 365 day journey of thankfulness. I will keep you updated as I journal my journey and hope you enjoy it. I would also love to hear your comments.
2010 and 2011 were definitely challenging and wonderful years for me. I was diagnosed with IGA Nephropathy in the early 1990's when we lived in Raleigh, NC. The disease progressed slowly and I was placed on the kidney transplant list at Duke Hospital in 2006. I went on peritoneal dialysis early 2010 and faced some challenges but nothing traumatic. I consider myself very, very lucky that I could do dialysis at home while I slept (or tried to sleep). We received 4-5 calls in the last year but none of them worked out. We were even admitted to the hospital one time and got all hooked up. Then it turned out that the kidney was damaged. Back home we went, I little disappointed but still certain that God was going to provide the perfect kidney for me.
Well the fateful call came on Friday the 13th of May 2011. All I know about the donor is that they were from Raleigh, NC. I had the surgery at 1am on Saturday the 14th and went home on Wednesday. I had the most amazing surgeon and nurses and my amazing family and friends took care of me when I returned home. I did write to the donors family but have not heard back. I pray that each day brings them healing and strength.
ANYWAY, I know we all have so much to be thankful for and often we take things and people for granted. I started a gratitude journal many months ago and it definitely helps me to focus on the positive. I have always loved sending letters and note cards to people and have done so over the years (even to people I do not know). I heard about someone who sent out a note a day for a year to people who touched their life and that really inspired me and got me to thinking about that.
So I made my list and got my cards and have started on my 365 day journey of thankfulness. I will keep you updated as I journal my journey and hope you enjoy it. I would also love to hear your comments.
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